Personal Development
Health and Wellbeing

A community dedicated to helping men, particularly divorced fathers, who have their backs to the wall, to rebuild their strength and regain their pride and their honour.

Welcome to the Triarius Project

I’m Dr. Allan Kalamir. A Gen-X doctor who, like many of my generation in their mid forties, was a hard working, devoted husband and father.

Life seemed to be going well, and then slowly but surely, my marriage gradually began unravelling despite all my best efforts. Irreconcilable differences ultimately led to divorce, leaving me in significant debt, deteriorating health, and ultimately purposeless with a shattered identity. Like many of my generation, I could not understand how or why this was happening. I was in a very dark place. My world had utterly collapsed around me. I started to believe it might be better off without me.

Triarius Project - Dr. Allan Kalamir - A Gen-X doctor

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Discover some of the best and thoughtfully-curated resources to navigate through this daunting phase of life. From insightful videos to mindful literature.

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Latest Videos

Our youtube channel contains a series of videos designed to help you make sense of your predicament and forge a way toward a new, more successful life

Inspirational Quotes

Need Help?

In this modern world of rapid change and fluid values, many men are finding themselves divorced, sick and broke, with few available resources to help them rebuild their lives. Triarius Project is committed to helping men overcome these challenges and get on with living life to the fullest. Please feel free to get in touch with us and help to build a community of mutual support, to minimise the epidemic of suicide among men.