Personal Development
Health and Wellbeing

A community dedicated to helping men, particularly divorced fathers, who have their backs to the wall, to rebuild their strength and regain their pride and their honour.

Welcome to the Triarius Project

I’m Dr. Allan Kalamir. A Gen-X doctor who, like many of my generation in their mid forties, was a hard working, devoted husband and father.

Life seemed to be going well, and then slowly but surely, my marriage gradually began unravelling despite all my best efforts. Irreconcilable differences ultimately led to divorce, leaving me in significant debt, deteriorating health, purposeless and a shattered identity. Like many of my generation, I could not understand how or why this was happening. I was in a very dark place. My world had utterly collapsed around me. I started to believe it might be better off without me.

Triarius Project - Dr. Allan Kalamir - A Gen-X doctor

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Discover some of the best and thoughtfully-curated resources to navigate through this daunting phase of life. From insightful videos to mindful literature.

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Latest Videos

Our youtube channel contains a series of videos designed to help you make sense of your predicament, and be inspired by heroes from history any myth.

Thomas Paine: The Forgotten Father of Western Democracy

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Blue Zone Analysis: Reviewing the longevity journey of Chef Niklas Ekstedt

This video is a review of a series produced by well known Mi... read more

Shakespeare’s Henry V Crispin’s Day Speech

William Shakespeare's play Henry V is one of his inspiration... read more

Shakespeare: The Genius we never knew

William Shakespeare was arguably the greatest writer in hist... read more

Inspirational Quotes