Personal Development
Health and Wellbeing

A community dedicated to helping men, particularly divorced fathers, who have their backs to the wall, to rebuild their strength and regain their pride and their honour.

Welcome to the Triarius Project

I’m Dr. Allan Kalamir. A Gen-X doctor who, like many of my generation in their mid forties, was a hard working, devoted husband and father.

Life seemed to be going well, and then slowly but surely, my marriage gradually began unravelling despite all my best efforts. Irreconcilable differences ultimately led to divorce, leaving me in significant debt, deteriorating health, and ultimately purposeless with a shattered identity. Like many of my generation, I could not understand how or why this was happening. I was in a very dark place. My world had utterly collapsed around me. I started to believe it might be better off without me.

Triarius Project - Dr. Allan Kalamir - A Gen-X doctor

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Discover some of the best and thoughtfully-curated resources to navigate through this daunting phase of life. From insightful videos to mindful literature.

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Latest Videos

Our youtube channel contains a series of videos designed to help you make sense of your predicament and forge a way toward a new, more successful life

Pemulwuy: Aboriginal Guerrilla Warrior

Pemulwuy was a member of the Bidgigal Clan, of the Eora nati... read more

AB Facey: Just an ordinary bloke. The not-so-ordinary life of a real Aussie battler

Albert Facey, born at the desperate tail end of the Australi... read more

Hero’s Journey: Joseph Campbell, the Monomyth and Psychology

The hero’s journey is the mythological representation of the... read more

Robert FitzRoy: The tragic story of the troubled genius who made Charles Darwin

Vice Admiral Robert FitzRoy is one of the forgotten heroes o... read more

Inspirational Quotes